Me, Myself and The Internet

Who am I?

My Facebook profile will tell you I am Kevin Irikefe, as would my Twitter, LinkedIn and even this very blog page but within each of these social media sites, I portray different aspects of myself, these are my personas. Your online identity is a collection of all these different personas you build on the internet. Each persona will more than likely contain consistent information about yourself, but there are characteristics of yourself that one site may contain and another may not.

With more and more social media sites becoming prevalent, we are finding ourselves constantly reinventing the person we are to cater to the different needs and benefits of the site. With the example above, LinkedIn is a professional site, connecting other likeminded professionals together. It would be inappropriate of me to share certain information from my Facebook page on LinkedIn as they both serve a different purpose in my life.

However, there are people who create different personas within the same social media site and their motives for this can be very questionable. Such as those who enjoy ‘catfishing’. Urban dictionary describes a ‘catfish’ as ‘someone who pretends to be someone they’re not using Facebook or other social media to create false identities, particularly to pursue deceptive online romances’.

As touched upon in my first blog, society is very much leaning towards digital ‘residency’ with Facebook as a major driving force. Facebook seeks so much information about yourself, there are things you might be shy to even tell your mother. Mark and co. would say this is to aggregate all your personal information in to a centralised hub in order to create authenticity. Which I suppose rids of ‘catfishes’ but also deems someone like myself as unauthentic.

David Vronay, the founder and CEO of Heard, says Facebook have a completely ulterior motive and they want to ‘monetize user interaction’. Hence ‘hyper-targeted’ ads. Facebook are not the only culprits, your online identity is not merely the partial identities you willingly disclose, but also the partial identities created by your interaction and use of other sites. This allows these websites to also tailor their content, information and, most importantly, their ads to you, specifically and because of this, a minority of people fear even having an identity online.

So, where is the line?

I believe being a multi-faceted brand online is representative of how people are in reality as we all are different ‘people’ in different situations. Your various online personas allow you demonstrate that in different online realms whilst maintaining your true identity.


Sources used:

David Vronay, Heard – The Online Identity Crisis

Alex Krotoski – Online identity: is authenticity or anonymity more important? 

7 Steps to building your online identity



5 thoughts on “Me, Myself and The Internet

  1. Hi Kevin,

    I think you have shown a good understanding of this topic. Similar to yourself, I maintain a professional online persona through LinkedIn and TARGET jobs, alongside a social online persona- Facebook and Snapchat being examples. Multiple online identities do seem to be the norm nowadays!

    I like the example of catfishing as evidence of someone changing their online persona, however could you have used an article to emphasise the contemporary issues of catfishing, alongside its dangers?

    An example of catfishing, explaining how the victim would have preferred to say that she had been raped instead, thus reinforcing the psychical and psychological dangers of catfishing:

    When you talk about ‘hyper-targeted’ ads taken from your partial identities, created by using other sites, does this relate to cookies?

    I think more references would have improved the blog, whilst images and videos between paragraphs could enhance the nature of the blog.


  2. Hi Kevin.

    I foundrenve your post to be very engaging from the start. Writing about who you are and how you separate your identities makes relating to the post much easier.
    I also enjoyed the idea of cat fishing and it’s nice to see a source referenced that isn’t normally used. I also, however feel that perhaps this could have been refeenced in some way, not necessarily through an article but maybe a video or an infographic could have been used.
    In regards to Facebook asking ever more proving questions, these questions can be skipped and there is no obligation to input your interests or information into their system. Yes, they do have a model which promotes ads for income however, they are not the only site to do this as Twitter also use a similar model although it shows slightly more generic ads, as you can read here:
    As Arun mentioned cookies replicate the ad model of Facebook across the internet and so our own individual experience of the Internet is determined by our identity and can contribute to it.


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